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Every day I am more convinced that we expect others to think, discuss, resolve or interpret things the same way we would. It's amazing how the same situation against all those involved react differently. Keeping this in mind can make a big difference when relating to others, especially if we are to develop a common project.

We have a group of friends working together to push forward a very special business. Although each has a different role, expectations are not met and, often, friendship should be an advantage, makes some evade their responsibilities covered in the level of respect, trust and camaraderie between them. And, of course, have begun to emerge, claims, justifications and discomfort ...

Like them, the expectation can happen to prevent us from finding the solution to our disagreements and differences, enhance all the strengths we have and, therefore, enjoy what we are doing together. How often do we bother and discuss with loved ones because they failed to resolve a situation as we have done, or just get discouraged and we get frustrated when they do not appreciate and value our suggestions? Will they be able to behave as we would like to do so ... We can not assume that it will, because each of us is special and unique individual characteristics, tastes, interests, approaches and points of view completely personal.

If we present this idea at the time of relating to others, we would have less friction and void, because would be more willing to accept them as they are, their limitations and strengths. We still have time to review our relations, especially that we have with our loved ones to wonder whether we have really allowed to express their ideas, desires and capabilities without limit.

relations to work and make us feel at ease we must learn to act out our true thoughts, feelings and needs, for only then that other person will know and give us what we really want. Otherwise, it will happen we will live the relationship only from our point of view, with false expectations, demands and frustrations. Do not make judgments or mental images of the attitude or behavior that others will assume. Let us be clear about our ideas, needs or expectations, and thus avoid the disagreements and conflicts that usually keep them.



be open to understand, accept and respect the other's point of view, taking into account individual differences, we will be more tolerant and understanding and at the same time, we will learn, grow and enrich our lives.